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A gift set of iconic female phrases and typical responses to them.

Women don't always mean what they say.

#1 Do you love me?

This means: that you were a scoundrel and missed the everyday ritual of stating our love several times.
Correct answer: "My love for you is as big as the volume of the ocean compared to a bag of orange juice!"
Incorrect answer: “I already told you everything on this topic when we met, why are you asking again?”

#2 Hello, where are you?

This means: "I decided to check your schedule with the planned one and at the same time listen to see if there are unfamiliar female voices in the background." Mobile communication has changed our lives, it is to her that we owe this new type of female greeting to the everyday life.
Correct answer: “Hi, I stopped by the store to look at gifts for your parents, otherwise there are so many holidays ahead ...”
Incorrect answer: "And what?"

#3 Am I not fat?

It means: "Urgently tell me how beautiful I am." A man's assessment of his own appearance is based on the first opinion he hears and remains fairly stable until a clinically proven refutation. That is, until the age of forty, a man considers himself slender and curly (as his great-aunt attested by pointing to her graduation photo) and begins to position himself as fat and bald only when the attending physician writes down in black and white in the card "obesity" and "alopecia". Women's self-esteem changes two to three times a day and depends on regular injections of compliments.
Correct answer: "Ha ha ha! You are a reed, you have to be force-fed like a dystrophic.”
Incorrect answer: "Of course, it's hard to call you thin, but in general this is not the main thing."

#4 I can't do this...

It means: "I'm not going to have sex with you now." Which is understandable without words - it is sadly buttoned up, looking slightly guilty. You remain in overexcited bewilderment: so - how is it? How exactly can't she? You feel like an underdeveloped lustful animal, unable to understand the subtle mechanisms of female psychology. In fact, the meanings of "I can't do this" vary widely. From "on the first date" and "I'm married (you're married)" to "to the cackle of your friends from the next room" and "I have these days." You have come across a sensitive nature, which attaches great importance to such a thing as sex with you. Do not be shy, go to the end, and perhaps, unexpectedly for herself, she will be able to do so. Not this time, but the next.
Correct answer: "I understand you. Feelings are sometimes stronger than logic.
Incorrect answer: "Fine! And what am I to do now, to walk like this?”

#5 I'm pregnant!

This means that you will have to make a very important decision. Because children are a nightmare, but living a life without children is somehow boring. Now the main thing is to arrange everything so that the decision is not made without you. And one more thing: try at first to react joyfully, just like that, to increase the level of world optimism.
Correct answer:“Wow, that's great! We need to seriously discuss this."
Incorrect answer: “Is it convenient for you to have an abortion on Wednesday? I just have a discount card in our antenatal clinic.”

№6 We know too little

It means: "I'm a little afraid of you and I don't have sex at all on the first (second) date." There is such a rule. This will not affect the quality of your future relationship in any way, you just have to wait a bit. You have your own little rules too, like not showing your collection of whips and handcuffs on the first date.
Correct answer: “But it seems to me that we have known each other for a thousand years!”
Incorrect answer: "Now I'm going to the toilet, I'll be back, and it will be like a second date, okay?"

№7 buy me pads

This means that your relationship has entered a phase of trust and stability. Now you can afford garlic croutons, a raised toilet seat, and sex in socks. She will forgive.
Correct answer: “Of course, dear. What do you like - where are three drops or two drawn?
Incorrect answer: “Maybe I should go to the gynecologist instead of you?”

№8 What are you thinking about?

It means: “I'm not sure that you like me, I'm not sure if I'm good at sex, I'm completely confused and I'm not sure of anything. Besides, I'm afraid that now you will consider me a woman of easy virtue, but I'm not like that. What has already been said before.
Correct answer: (kissing the girl in a suitable place): “That we came up with a good idea. What do you think?
Incorrect answer: “Now would be a beer! Cold ... "

№9 You need to get checked

It means: “I was found to have a strange sexually transmitted disease. But which of us infected whom is a big and interesting question.” Do not be discouraged, medicine has reached such heights that, theoretically, even pregnancy can now be caught by everyday means. Incubation periods last for years, so you can both provide yourself with an alibi. And don't be surprised if they don't find anything with you - everyone, you know, has their own microflora. And be safe next time.
Correct answer: "I, of course, will check, but you are still a very windy girl for your age."
Incorrect answer: "Wait, I'll explain everything to you!"

#10 So where have you been?

This means that you will now need to say something very, very convincing. Because for the past two hours, she's been fueling her jealousy, judging the facts, and maybe even calling your friends, with whom you allegedly whiled away the time in a bar with impenetrable walls for mobile communications.
Correct answer: (after rinsing his mouth with cognac): “Darling! Juventus did screw up Parma 3:1! Are you glad? But I seem to have sowed a mobile ... "
Incorrect answer: “Am I obliged to account for my every step?”

№11 I have a headache

This means: “Today you will have to do without vaginal, oral, anal and all other types of sex with me, because I'm not in the mood. Don't even try." Although it is possible that she really just has a headache.
Correct answer: “It's the brain growing. Do you want me to find you a pill?
Incorrect answer: "It's nothing. Lie down on your stomach, your head won't feel a thing."

№12 Do you notice anything?

It means: "I tried so hard, and you, insensitive brute, did not even pay attention." Urgently examine the questioning woman from head to toe for metamorphosis. The chest is in place and has not changed in size? It doesn't mean anything yet. Try to remember some basic features of her appearance - the color and texture of her hair, the color of her eyes. There are changes? Not sure? Do not be upset, a person is not able to remember those 200-300 parameters that a woman considers the main ones in her appearance. New may be a manicure, dress or eyebrow shape. If your girlfriend suddenly began to resemble Donald, she may have increased the volume of her lips. If her eyes seem larger to you, she may have worn glasses before and now has lenses. Although it is possible that she just did a general cleaning or hung new curtains. Which should have caught my eye right away.
Correct answer: “Of course I notice, I'm not blind! So much better!”
Incorrect answer: "What should I notice? New curlers?

№13 Am I really not fat?

It means that you still haven't done enough work on this sore point. Yes, you have already compared her to concentration camp prisoners and offered her to buy things in the children's department. But this is not enough! You yourself should make a thoughtful face from time to time, squint and mutter thoughtfully: “Have you lost weight? It seems to me that you have lost weight ... You need to eat more ... "
Correct answer: "I swear on my game console, you will soon have to change your wardrobe - all these things are great for you!"
Incorrect answer: "If you ask me about it again, I will tell you the truth, and it will be scary!"

№14 Let's stay friends

It means: “I met someone more sexually interesting than you. I feel a little uncomfortable about this, and also - I feel sorry for you. Of course, you felt good with her not only in bed, but also in the movies, at the disco, on the beach. Therefore, there is a temptation to "remain friends" in order to continue a pleasant relationship. Do not give in, in the cinema, at the disco and on the beach, you will still think about sex.
Correct answer: "No no. I'm afraid you won't be able to stand it and rape me."
Incorrect answer: "Great! Let's go shopping and drink coffee and cakes together. But I still hope that you will come back to me ... "

№15 I don't know what you see in it!

It means: "I hate this painted creature and, if necessary, I will scratch out her eyes." Each male company has its own lyrical heroine, the discussion of which is the charm of the notorious male conversations. Usually this is a common colleague or former classmate. She smokes, drinks and skillfully tells obscene jokes. Easily sits on someone's lap if there are no empty seats. And even if there is ... It doesn't mean anything, it's just that she's so direct, so her own. Wives and girlfriends hate them.
Correct answer: "Nothing! She's fat, ugly and... what's the word... vulgar! By the way, you seem to have lost weight.
Incorrect answer: "Come on, she's cool!"

#16 You're a man!

This means: “I was about to do this unpleasant thing myself, when I suddenly remembered who I could blame it on.” Screw in a light bulb, hammer in a carnation, bring a potato - no one argues, it really needs strength, dexterity, ingenuity and other qualities that the boys absorbed in labor lessons. But there are other missions (absolutely pointless) - turn off the stove halfway, climb out onto the winter balcony for a three-liter jar, rummage through the beach in search of a hairpin - which, from a female point of view, only titans can do. Attempts to discuss these missions in terms of the laws of physics and logic are regarded as ungentlemanly. You are a man! So do not argue, but rather take an umbrella and bring a powder box from the car.
Correct answer: “Of course, dear! Ah, your sweet distraction!”
Incorrect answer: "I can't, I already painted my nails."

#17 Am I disturbing you?!

It means: “I don't want you to change the subject immediately. And it is desirable that they never return to her again with me, and especially without me. In the presence of girls, men's conversations become especially exciting - where to go on vacation? where to buy bathroom furniture? Is Japanese food healthy? But it happens, word for word, the conversation moves off somewhere in the wrong place. Holidays, hot countries, Thai people can do this... Built-in appliances, Petrovich, by the way, installed a video camera in the bathroom, and when prostitutes come... Speaking of Japanese cuisine, do you remember that waitress from the Hiroshima restaurant? and feel uncomfortable.
Correct answer: "Sorry, dear! Gennady, stop talking nonsense! So, from the point of view of the “price-quality” ratio, German mixers ... "
Incorrect answer: "Ha ha ha! Dear, close your ears, I want to finish the thought.

№18 Do you remember what day it is?

This means: “I waited half a day for congratulations and flowers, they were not. I looked at your non-holiday face, and a terrible guess entered my head ... ”Remember quickly. If today is her birthday, your anniversary, March 8 or February 14, you can still get out. Pretend that you have been preparing a surprise all day, and blow for gifts. If today is a holiday of a smaller caliber (for example, 1000 days from the beginning of your sexual life), then you could well, as a confused workaholic, forget about it.
Correct answer: "Of course I remember. But do you remember? Come on, tell me."
Incorrect answer: "Tuesday".

№19 I just wondered what would happen next

It means: "Are you thinking of marrying me or what?" The first year is the most enjoyable. Vacation, New Year, flu epidemic - everything is like the first time. Then repetitions begin, and the girl thinks about the future. How long can you "just date"? You grow up, she gets old. Not ready to get married? Introduce her to relatives, write out a power of attorney for the car, make duplicate keys - in short, take steps towards the final rapprochement, play for time.
Correct answer: “I see our future in the brightest colors. Let's go out of town for the weekend!"
Incorrect answer: "What's the point of thinking about it, we'll all die anyway!"

№20 I'm tired and I want to go home

It means: "I'm bored here, I have no one to impress here, no one notices my appliqué suede skirt, and even you don't pay attention to me!" Once in the company of unfamiliar acquaintances of your girlfriend, you can always find solace in a secluded corner with a bottle of whiskey and the catalog "BMW-2004 Model Range". Women are not so sublime and self-sufficient creatures. Bring - entertain. If you don't know how, take it away.
Correct answer: “Of course, dear, we’ll go now. By the way, meet Oksana, Misha's wife. Their baby is only two, and she has already gone to work. It's so interesting!"
Incorrect answer: "Lie down here on the couch, I'll wake you up when it's time to go home. Wait, I'll bring a towel to cover you."
Incorrect answer: "Wash it from the inside, you stupid dynamo!"

№22 You better leave your phone

This means: "I will not call, but politeness does not allow me to send you to FIG." Well, it could be worse, you could get the answering phone of the district bath. Get her out of your head, better luck next time! Especially if you shave off your mustache and change your deodorant.
Correct answer: "Write it down. Most likely, my butler will pick up the phone, he does not speak Russian, but he understands everything.
Incorrect answer: "Are you sure you'll call?"

№23 I understand everything

It means: “You are married, but this does not bother me. Don't worry, I won't bother you with calls in the evenings." Well, if you want a non-committal relationship on the side, this is your chance. Especially if the girl is over thirty, she is married and has three children. She does not need flowers - where will she put them then? She always has her passport with her - in case of a hotel. She complains about her family life, you complain about yours. She understands everything. And yes, you don't even have to have sex. Romance!
The correct answer is: “Understanding is your most valuable quality.”
Incorrect answer: “Could you use the same perfume as my wife?”

№24 Do you tell all the girls this?

This means: “I don’t believe in romantics with such an impudent mug!” Reading magazines was not in vain for you: you know what words to strike a spark of excitement even from a stone woman's heart. I love cooking, kung fu, children and dogs. You have a graceful neck, let's go to my place, let's read Pasternak aloud... He doesn't believe me. Strange. Try to look her in the eyes next time, think about something sad and high (for example, about the presidential rating) and put carnations in your shoe - all these measures will give your lustful image the right amount of contradictory trepidation. Which in the twilight can be mistaken for sincerity. Yes, and take that pack of condoms out of your breast pocket.
Correct Answer: Close your eyes and lie down. Now I will try to give you artificial respiration. Incorrect answer: “Me too… Where is the toilet here…?”

) at the last job in the magazine there were constant clashes with the director of the photo service. “It is impossible to develop any kind of strategy in dealing with a person who does nothing in the workplace and in whose blood everything that he encounters is slandered without stepping on the throat of his own opinion rushing out,” she is sure.

Sveta recalls that the "difficult" boss, firstly, had a very loud voice, and secondly, he was very fond of talking - it was impossible to shout down, get through to him. “I had to just hush up conversations, turning purple with indignation,” she says. “You just have to ignore such people and pretend that you are listening to music. referring to emergency." Sveta never managed to get along with the conflicting boss: as a result of clashes with him, she was fired.

For those who do not want to lose their jobs because of "difficult" colleagues, Timesonline offers 10 behavioral tips that can help you not only get along with a difficult person, but also internally change your attitude towards him.

1. Look deeper

“People do not come to work on purpose to do their job as badly as possible and ruin your life,” says Matt Brown, director of the YSC consulting company. “You need to try to understand the root of the problem. That is, to understand what drives a person, what are his motives, why He's not at his best right now."

2. Change the way you think

If you enter into a conversation thinking of the other person as a difficult person, you immediately become defensive, which can create tension between you, and this will not help the cause. "Change your perspective," says Marielena Sabatier, CEO of Inspiring Potential. "Maybe this person isn't difficult at all, just not like you."

3. Change your actions

"When we're dealing with problem colleagues, it's easier to get them to understand by focusing on understanding what they need from us," says Gareth English, senior consultant at OPP. "But the point is, they are your problem, and if you want to fix it, the most effective way to do so is to take responsibility for the change. Often the solution is to first change something about your behavior." .

4. Don't put off solving the problem

The longer you ignore a problem, the more intractable it becomes. Often a simple conversation can be enough to resolve the issue on the spot. "If you're in conflict with someone who's in control, you just need to get to the bottom of it," says Brown.

5. Communicate at their level

Most people react to a difficult situation with their usual communication patterns, only intensifying the degree. "It's better to try to identify how your communication style differs from theirs and try to adapt it accordingly," says English.

6. If you have bad news to tell, prepare for the worst.

Telling a difficult person bad news is always an unpleasant experience. However, negative side effects can be mitigated by being direct in your actions. You need to remove all the emotional part and focus on the main thing.

7. Don't reward bad behavior

Stop solving other people's problems, or you will have to do it again and again. And do not let yourself be drawn into arguments by people who are trying to attract attention in this way. Even if you win this fight, you will lose the battle.

8. Be consistent and clear

If the problem is in the person's behavior, say what he needs to change in it. If a colleague continues to display bad behavior, say so directly and immediately - do not wait for the next formal audience.

9. Focus on goals, not methods

Problems can arise when the discussion starts to revolve around ways to do something rather than what should be done. You must have a clear idea of what you want to achieve. Focus on the purpose of the conversation, not on getting things your way.

10. Some things can't be fixed.

"Maybe the person is behaving this way because the organization doesn't suit them," says Williams. In some situations, for example, when it comes to aggression, there are practically no ways to resist a "difficult" person. And there can be only one solution here - to leave yourself or (if it is in your competence) to fire your "difficult" colleague.

Fall in love!

However, assistant photo editor Olga has one last (and wonderful) way to get along with a difficult colleague. “If a person is difficult to communicate, I fall in love with him, this is not at all difficult to do, because everyone has good and bad qualities,” she says. “You need to evaluate a person in a complex and understand how extraordinary and amazing he is. difficulties are not difficulties, but joys :) Every moment of communication gives pleasure and happiness, and when people see what happiness they bring you, they change for the better!"

Good afternoon, dear readers! In life we meet completely different people. Some are nice to be around and want to spend as much time as possible. Others lead to negative emotions and they want to forget as soon as possible. Today I invite you to talk about how to deal with impudent people, try to find out who they are and how not to succumb to their manipulation.

Who is the insolent

What is an impudent person? Someone says that he is shameless, others say that he is impudent and rude. In general, such a person can be described as fast-acting for his own purposes. What they want to do, they do for their own benefit and pleasure.

They do not consider the opinions of others, put themselves first and do not care about the feelings of other people.
An impudent person will not ask permission. He has his own vision of the situation and it is exceptional and correct, he will not even doubt that he is right. He doesn’t care about someone else’s opinion, he won’t even listen if you try to convince him of something that is unusual for him.

Some people think that being arrogant means that you can achieve success faster. Hence the saying goes: arrogance is the second happiness. Only here we are not talking about unceremonious behavior, but about determination, courage and perseverance. Only in this way will luck and success be on your side.

I bring to your attention the book by Hazel Edwards and Helen McGrath " Difficult people". In it you will find examples of various complex people with whom it is extremely difficult to communicate, and indeed to find a common language. The book offers various options for behavior with such comrades.

Your tactics

You can communicate with arrogant people in different ways. Respond with rudeness to rudeness, try to put in place, ignore, be manipulated, and so on. Don't forget that it all depends on the situation.

There are times when there is a need to communicate with such a person, for example, when it is your boss or a higher person.

Let's look at a few behavioral tactics that you can use in dealing with an arrogant and unpleasant person. You already decide according to the situation which answer and which reaction will be more appropriate and correct.

be tougher

Some arrogant types don't understand rejection at all. An annoying guy, for example, is not so easy to get rid of. Therefore, it is necessary to clearly, distinctly and unambiguously. Don't be afraid to say "no". Without the possibility of further continuation of the dialogue. Do not be afraid to offend a person with your refusal, speak boldly.

Stand your ground and do not give in to further developments. If the person doesn't understand the rejection, ignore or ignore it. The psychology of communication lies in the fact that sooner or later he will get tired of ignoring you and he will go looking for another victim.

Don't stoop to his level

No matter how much you want to respond with rudeness, in no situation do I advise you to do this. Why?

First, you will show that his words affect you and you succumb to his rules of the game.
Secondly, it is always necessary to remain a well-mannered and cultured person.
Thirdly, in this way you will only go down to him, because you won’t be able to raise him to your level.

calmness

In any situation, try to remain patient and calm. Remember, your emotions and nerves are much more expensive than any insolent and boorish person. He will go crazy, and you will not be able to recover for some time. Don't let him get what he wants. And he wants to bring you to emotions, play, make you do what he needs.

By keeping your cool, you are more likely not to be manipulated by such a person and can safely get rid of his presence.

Do not know how to communicate with people who are negative towards you? It's OK. I have an article that will tell you how to behave, what you should never do, and how to choose the appropriate tactics of behavior: "".

If you really want to, then, of course, you can try to play with the insolent according to his rules. Just be sure in advance that you can win. Usually it is better not to get involved with such people at all and bypass them.

If in your life there is a need to communicate with an insolent person, then just remain calm and neutral. Do not be rude, do not be rude in response. Do not fall for provocations and do not let him feed on your negative reaction.

Clearly stand your ground and know how to defend your boundaries. Do not allow other people to violate your personal space and pry into other people's business. You have the right to your defense. Use this right.

How often do you meet such people? How does your communication usually go? Have you done anything brazen in your life?

Patience and peace to you!

This is one of the first desires that arise after an insult. But a retaliatory attack is appropriate only if it:

witty;
takes place in the circle of relatives or friends;
defuse the situation rather than exacerbate the conflict.

In all other cases, even if you consider yourself a wit worse than Oscar Wilde, answering an insult with an insult is not the best way out. So you sink to the level of a boorish opponent and make it clear that his words hurt you, that is, there may be some truth in them.

2. Make a joke

The difference between a witty insult and a joking response is that in the latter case, you are making fun of the situation itself. The advantages of this strategy are obvious: the insult loses its toxicity, tension, and the audience (if any) takes your side.

In this case, you can also take a pseudo-self-deprecating position. This will confuse your opponent and mask the sarcasm.

Example 1: A colleague says you've prepared an ugly presentation.

Answer: You are probably right. Next time, I won't ask my five-year-old son for help."

Example 2: A stranger calls you names.

Answer: “Thank you, this is very valuable information. You opened my eyes to my shortcomings. Something to think about over lunch."

3. Accept

In some cases, it is really worth analyzing words that seem offensive to you. Especially if they come from people close and respected by you. In this case, take their remarks not as an insult, but as criticism that can make you better.

It would be useful to think about the motives of people, to find out what exactly made them use harsh language. Perhaps this is a violent reaction to your far from angelic behavior.

4. Respond to intent, not words

Any insult always has a hidden purpose. Make the secret clear: designate it.

For example, in response to rude words, say: “Wow! Something really serious happened between us, since you decided to hurt me.

So, on the one hand, you can unsettle your opponent, and on the other hand, find out the reason for his negative attitude.

5. Keep calm

If the insult comes not from a loved one, but from a colleague, acquaintance, or even a stranger, never show that the words hurt you. Most likely, behind them lies insecurity, dissatisfaction with their own lives and a desire to simply recoup you. Don't let the trick work, react calmly and with a smile.

If necessary, continue to bend your line: ask what exactly caused such a reaction in a person, not paying attention to his words.

6. Ignore

Often the best answer is its absence. If we are talking about Internet trolls, you can simply not respond to their comments or send boors to . Well, "in offline mode" you can always skip the insult past your ears or leave. You have every right to do so.

An example from ancient Roman history... Once, in the public baths, someone hit the politician Cato. When the offender came to apologize, Cato replied: "I don't remember the blow."

This phrase can be interpreted as follows: "You are so insignificant that not only do I not care about your apology, but I did not even notice the insult itself."

7. Use the law

You can hold the offender accountable, or at least threaten him with it. Punishment for insult is prescribed in the Code of Administrative Offenses, but slander is already in the scope of criminal law. In case of insults from the boss, you can contact the personnel department.

The main thing - remember: no one has the right to encroach on your honor, dignity and reputation. But you must respond to people in the same way. Otherwise, any recommendations are meaningless.

Faced with rudeness, you always want to answer the offender. In a fit of anger, we often do not control our feelings and emotions. This can lead to a number of negative consequences. The easiest outcome of them is a quarrel, and the most negative is a fight. But, you see, to suffer yourself and stoop to assault just because your interlocutor is in a bad mood is at least stupid.

The most correct thing in such a situation is to answer the offender calmly and confidently, but in such a way as to put the boor in his place. To do this tactfully, without spending extra effort and energy, there are special preparations - bold phrases.

Who is ham?

This is the aggressor, attacking and violating your personal boundaries. He tries to hurt the most sore spots and at the same time avoid revenge. Scientific evidence indicates that such a person is, in fact, a miserable person with low self-esteem who wants to assert himself at the expense of those offended or ridiculed by him. Here's what you need to know when faced with a boor. Understand and forgive, or even pity an insignificant person or answer with a witty phrase, smiling good-naturedly (not caustically!)

Examples of situations where anger cannot be contained

A decent-looking person who is a boor can be found at every turn today. Often the most common places of its deployment are the following:

1. Marketplaces. The favorite place of a bored, angry person is, of course, a market or a supermarket. In some cases, a pharmacy is popular. Firstly, you can go there as if on a tour and be indignant enough, studying the prices on the shelves. Secondly, knocking around in the crowd is also a nice thing for them. And all this, of course, is accompanied by unpleasant comments addressed to passers-by. By the way, shop assistants also like to be rude.

2. Public transport. The favorite place of all boors is the crowd. And where else can you enjoy the disturbances so much as in the crush of traffic during rush hour? There you pushed, here - you. And as a result, for example, we have a heatedly screaming woman who splashes out her anger on everyone who tries to argue with her. And God forbid you surpass her in this honed skill.

3. Polyclinic. The state institution, where one must definitely stand in line, also knows impudent people. It can be an insolent person who will try to sneak out of the queue. But then he will receive a good verbal thrashing from people waiting in line, among whom boors can also hide.

4. Places of study. Adolescence is famous for the "painful" growing up of children. How is it shown? Bold phrases addressed to teachers, bickering in the classroom at school, lyceums. Teenagers cannot give an objective assessment of what is happening. It seems to them that they already know everything, and adults are a little behind them. Unfortunately, rudeness and impudent phrases in the lessons of high school students are a completely common circumstance. The teacher can put the student in his place, having won authority in his eyes, or not pay attention to what "outgrows" itself.

Daring phrases and expressions: examples

And it is true that we are all interested in discussing topics that do not concern us at all.
From a person who is difficult to cheer, you should not expect good.
I know that crooks succeed, not because of their own intelligence, as they believe, but because of the gullible people around. And to lie, just the mind is not needed. Being honest is a skill.
I'm terribly embarrassed to tell you this, but I'm not at all interested in how I look in your eyes, sorry. I look great in mine, and that's enough.

What level of development, such and interests.
You are so low in communication that, frankly, you are not even visible on the horizon.
Please continue. When you say such things, I feel so smart.
I'm sorry, but you can hear bad amber from your mouth.
And can you bring a drum?
With such tirades, you can only stand in the corner.
If you are angry, then you yourself know that you are wrong.
In this case, your emotions are not identified with the conclusions of your thinking.
If you don't like me, I let you go underground.

Daring phrases for girls

If a girl does not want to communicate with a guy, but cannot get rid of his annoyingness, or vice versa - she is struggling with his rudeness, perhaps she should use some phrases.

For example:

Your time in my life is over. Give your pass and get out.
If you fell in love with me - it's your fault, all you can achieve is my smile.
Dear, you are right - there has never been anyone like you, there is no more and there is no need.
What should - I know, it is written in the Constitution. The rest - as I want.
I'm doing great, so there's nothing to please you.
Weren't you in the movie "Clowns"?
I'm not picky, just the best is enough for me.

And what about guys?

Not only girls suffer from annoying boors. Let's look at some cheeky phrases for guys. They can use these statements in response to the rudeness of their peers:

You are not beautiful enough to be rude to me.
If you say that, then most likely you have a spare jaw in your pocket.
Kiss me with a run, I'm standing behind a tree.
Maybe you are the most beautiful girl in our area, but I'm also interested in communicating with smart ones.

So, the first foundation is laid. Now you know how to respond to rudeness. But in no case do not parry these statements in front of an innocent person. And then in the role of a boor you will find yourself.